Fatherhood

George Bush and Barack Obama don’t have a lot in common. One is a conservative Republican, the other a liberal Democrat.

But they agree on one thing: Fatherhood is important.

One of these men said this week:

“Fathers instill in their children an understanding of right and wrong and help them to grow in confidence and character. These dedicated men strive to give their sons and daughters the necessary foundation to make good choices and lead lives of purpose.”

The other said:

“Let’s admit to ourselves that there are a lot of men out there that need to stop acting like boys; who need to realize that responsibility does not end at conception; who need to know that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child but the courage to raise a child.”

Does it matter which man uttered which quote?

No it does not. What is important is the sentiments that both expressed.

I have four kids. After my faith, the most important thing in my life is to be a good father to them and a good husband to my wife.

Some kids don’t have fathers in their lives. That’s a shame. Kids don’t have to have an active father to grow up strong and smart, but it helps -- immensely.

If you’re a man with kids, don’t ever shortchange them. If your dad still with you, cherish him. One day, sooner than you think, he will be gone.